Wednesday, May 11, 2016

auld lang syne Paula

keeping themselves busy until their friends come

Baba giving them mulberries from the garden








Paul's husband's name is Andy Griffith.  I never even asked if they knew about the show - it's life with kids that constantly pulls away from leisurely conversations like this - let alone a coherent thought sometimes.

the Griffiths
The Griffiths all came over for a last night barbecue - Anne had marinated the chicken and kofte, Tolga grilled the meat, vegetables, and mushrooms, we prepared salad, french fries, Anne made an cold oily eggplant dish, and we had soda, beer, and drinks.  

I had made a strawberry pie which we stuck candles in and sang happy birthday to Andy - for his 40th birthday on Sunday.  (He had already ben pestering Paula about a birthday week).  Aoife, their youngest, had warmed up to me and sat happily on my lap when she was trying to escape from everyone else.  I had forgotten how much I love other people's kids too - I've been so caught up with my own kids for the past four years.  All the kids came out together to join in singing.

Paula and I looked at our kids, at our husbands, at our twenty years of friendship - and we nodded with gratefulness at our shared happiness.


a little older, that's all

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